Ask A Dude: Sexin' The Ex

Brew Q: What do you fellas think about ''Ex-Sex'' does it complicate things or is it an easy fix it til you meet someone new?

REV REAL: Easy fix!

ASK A CASH: Nothing is "easy" when it comes to dealing with an ex, but it usually does tide you over. You both know what each other likes and it's not something that you have to figure out. When you meet the new girl, you have to ration out your freaky behaviors so you don't scare her off. Your ex already knows you got issues, and is down for whatever. Problem is, she's your ex for a reason. And if she can have sex with you and that be that, everything's cool. But we all know it's never that simple...

SUpreme: "Ex-sex" for me isn't something I typically engage in...but the times that I have, it almost never has complicated things for me. Not to come across as bragging, but most women I've been with would give favorable reviews...and since we almost always break-up/end it with no drama or problems, it isn't hard for "ex-sex" to occur if we both feel the mood.

But the very REASON I don't do it typically is cuz, as much as they try, most women cannot separate emotions from a regular or on-going sexual relationship. And I don't want to give the wrong impression, toy with emotions or play with a woman's head. It's over...but they may think things are going back to the way they were if you're hooking up every third night and neither of you has a new relationship. Even worse - when you GET that new prospect, she may feel used and/or hurt...even though she knew what it was from the beginning

So, I usually pass on ex-sex...but the flesh IS weak...lol.

Brew Note: I guess it depends on the break up. If it was amicable and if you are the type of chick that can handle being intimate, without getting your 'girl on' and thinking it means a reconciliation...go for it: Smash then Dash! Hump then Dump! Skeet then....Delete!

But if you were the wronged party or quite sensitive...just go pick yourself up some batteries...it's sooo not worth it! Funnily enough the experts say the same thing.
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