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Witches' Brew: Ask A Dude: We Be Clubbin

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Ask A Dude: We Be Clubbin

A Brew Chick Presents The Following Real Life Scenario:
Say you're hanging out with a guy you just met. This is only your second time seeing him. You and your girl meet up with him and his boy. You go to a club and the guy makes a joke about your girl's booty (it's big) and the group laughs...meantime both of you see other people you know and chat it up periodically. Then the guy starts talking to another girl and her friend for a long period of time even calling his boy over to that group to leave you and your girl alone. So you bounce. Then he texts you like, "you dipped huh"? You never answer him.

Is that being petty?

Ask A Cash: No, that's not petty, it was a waste of time and you should have cut him! I understand that he's not trying to give off the impression that you're a couple, but there was a breakdown in communication somewhere. Good that you bounced. Next time, go order a bunch of drinks on his tab, and then roll!

SUpreme: This one is simple. If he can't be bothered to pay attention to you, don't be bothered with him - AT ALL. Cuz I know if I'm remotely into a woman, she has my full attention - ESPECIALLY if I met her out! C'mon, man...sounds like he's at least playing games, but more than likely he's a HERB...

Gross Dude: Well, I'm sure there are 3 sides to this. Yours, his and whatever fly on the wall that may have been observing. You did say you were chatting it up with other people you knew periodically. 2 minutes to you could have been a half hour to him... and vice versa. Maybe you are a local celebrity, that barfly everyone knows and that was to much for him. ... maybe the other chicks had better personalities.... or your big butt friend was really obese, he felt bad and had to save his friend, because if it was like Buffy, they would have been circling the two of you like flies to shit.

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At Tuesday, October 13, 2009 at 9:20:00 PM EDT , Blogger XIRUS said...

No. it is not petty if you decide to leave because you were not feeling the scene. there was a breakdown in communication though. since this was only your 2nd time hanging, your psychic friends powers hadn't activated yet. as for you not answering his call, there is no rule saying that you have to answer ANY of his calls. y'all ain't like that.
what WOULD BE petty is if you were acting stank to him when you saw him in the future. this is a situation where it did not work out and it is best to just keep it moving.


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