Training Wheels

"When life hands you lemons, make lemonade..." I love that quote because that's exactly what we women do when it comes to men. We take a diamond in the rough, clean 'em up, show them which fork to use and fine tune the swagger. We do this for many reasons 1) cause we're nurturers 2) because we are molding you into the man we'd want to be with. It's just how we think. This plan I find can backfire as it has for me once, twice or forkin fifty times!!! It seems like when we give a dude "the secret", they study hard and the minute their little "training wheels" come off they start start cuttin' up. So I bounce and start with the next prospect. Fast forward a few months or years. You got that dude out your system and you're living your life, who hoo! Then you hear that he's getting married, or wifed up some other chick, or had a baby. Whatever the life change may be it's fab for them but for you, not so much. You can't help but feeling some kind of way. You put in work and got a pink slip instead of a bonus. The optimist in me says "good for you and your cock-eyed lookin' broad and hairy-ass baby. The pessimist is hurt and heated that you pre-gamed with me only to score a touchdown with the next broad. (sorry, I love football) Okay, I get it, I get it, "don't hate the player, hate the game", blah, blah, blah! But am I wrong to feel some kind of way about this? Discuss...