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Did I miss a memo? Is domestic violence the new black?

Gospel great Bebe Winans got hit with a misdemeanor assault charge after allegedly pushing his former wife, Debra, last month. Winans and his wife were apparently arguing over custody of their children when he allegedly pushed her to the ground in front of her Tennessee home.

The two were married for 16 years before divorcing in 2003. Winans is currently a judge on BET's Sunday Best 2.

Where is Oprah?