Real Talk Tuesdays: Are You Nola Darling??

You're a foxy, independent lady. You work, you exercise, you cook, you care for your home, have a banging wardrobe, hair stays 'fried, dyed and layed to the side'. I mean you are the bitness! Men light up when they notice you, you are single and maybe not loving it necessarily, but you are very okay with it.

Speaking of men, you don't care for terms that tie you to one man, after all, there are many sides to you, surely one man cannot satisfy them all right? So you juggle, not in the player sense, cause you are straight up honest with your suitors that you are not in for all that "one on one, I'm your girl, your my man" nonsense. Oh and you sex all the men you're seeing. It's safe of course, but again as far as you're concerned each satisfy a different hunger within you. You in no way feel bad about any of this, but soon your luck runs out. Someone done fugged it all up and caught feelings, at worst all of them have....... now the ninjas want you to choose. No one puts Nola Darling in a corner!

Are you selfish, insatiable, impossible to please, greedy or just truly unconventional in how you view men, love and relationships? I remember when I first saw "She's Gotta Have It". I thought Nola was a raging hoebag, now that I'm older my view and opinion of her character has completely shifted. Knowing what I know now, I think Nola is the smartest woman I know.........