Brew Dating Woes: A Steak and a Dream.......

So you know, there's this dude right, he's cool, sparks never fly between ya'll but you're willing to give it the ole college try on a dating level. Butterflies and sparks are for kids anyway, or so you tell yourself . So ya'll go back and forth on what you'd like this first date to look like (he's playing mad games though cause he sees you're a sturdy girl so he knows damn well you want it to fall somewhere on the food line) and decide you'll play it by ear because you both have pretty full schedules. So then one night outta the blue he calls and says "Hey meet me at such n such place, I'm here with some folks I know, I would love to buy you a meal and spend some time with you". BAM! he said meal! you are out the door!

But...... you get there and much to your surprise, some folks = his whole entire effin crew! Like every friend he's ever had in his entire life. It's really more like 'boys night out' but for some bizarre reason he invites you out to join them. Now he sticks to his end of the bargain as far as the meal he felt so compelled to buy you, however he gets you situated in a spot that's comfy for you, tells you to order what you want and then goes back over to his boys and leaves you alone with a steak and a dream....

HUNH??? How weird is this? Now he does come over periodically to check on you and make sure you're doing good meal wise  but he's really there to date his boys. Now are you wrong when you give your # to some of the other menses in the vicinity who find you pretty hot n tempting??? Wrong or not, that's what I did. Ole boy was so engrossed in dating his boys that he was never none the wiser. Clearly, our thing never went anywhere but he still insists to this day that I'm the apple of his eye. But who dates in this fashion?? As long as I live in this DC area I swear I will continue to be stunned and amazed by the dating scene here.

Not so bad though I suppose, at least I get some steaks for my troubles.......