Jonsing for Love

I have hood rat tendencies but I'm really a softie when it comes to love. So I was watching my favorite movie, "Love Jones" the other day and I got to thinking between scoops of my oreo cookie blizzard, am I doing myself a disservice by watching these types of movies? Do romantic flicks ruin our perception of real relationships? Am I wrong to be waiting for my "Darius?" Discuss...