Ask A Dude Roundtable: Installment Deux Electric Boogaloo

Your favorite Witches hosted a cyber sit down with several of the opinionated (right or wrong) fellas in our cipher and grilled them to the white meat. We're hoping these discussions can start a dialogue (In the comments section please), and foster a greater understanding between the genders. *Witches' Note- We have purposely not rebutted- even though our mouths are bleeding from biting our tongues. Now that you have met our dudes... let's get to it.

Brew Q Part Deux:

(Part Une, voici!)

Do you find the more you are living up to your potential, more likely you are to date someone that you can take seriously?

Big in Europe: Living up to your potential has absolutely nothing to do with being in a relationship. If anything, having a relationship should enhance you living up to your potential. If the person you choose to be with doesn't bring anything to the table in terms of support and understanding, then why bother at all?

Gross Dude: Yes, I think so- fellas like Trophies.. something/someone that matches where they are in life. Especially the high achieving people. If they are an exec, Dr., lawyer... we may marry another one. Unfortunately, we are still prone to keep a psycho waitress on the side. (Brewchie Note: Psycho waitresses need love too!)

Mr. Crab: Clearly...If you're working at McDonalds, you can't really expect the sexy doctor who's coming in for a McSalad and a water to really fall in love with you with all your greasy, pimply goodness oozing out --with an extra toothy smile to boot!

Reverend Real: Good question. (Brewchie note: Glad you approve, Father Real) I think so. Having been married for a few years now, I can say one huge benefit is that it keeps you focused. No sitting at work on Friday afternoon making a schedule of how you’re going to juggle your “stable” for the weekend. The more you excel at your ambitions, the more you feel the need to have someone that enables your progress.

Ask A Cash: No, I really don’t think that the two relate. You can live up to your potential and be career minded, but just date and not be committed.

SUpreme: Well, I tend to not date ANYONE I can’t take seriously. I avoid the drama, bull and games that many men & women play with each other. I don’t see the point of all the game-playing.

What's your call?

Do you think that the more a man has his 'ish together, the more successful his relationships can be or is that just another excuse to play the field? And why do men seem to equate the word "potential" with career.. hmmm?

Discuss.