Choices and the consequences they come with.....

Reading all the blogs and all the details of the affair Steve McNair was having with Sahel Kazemi



makes it hard to not be left wondering when people (not just men) will stop the foolishness. Though it hasn't been confirmed that his death is a result of a lovers spat that resulted in a murder-suicide, all things seem to point in that direction. Is it really that serious? Do you seriously buy condos and Escalades for a child you met in Dave & Busters where you took your family on outtings? If you really feel this strong urge to relish a young, hot, exotic-ish chick here's a novel idea.... leave your wife,right??? I know people will say "it's not that easy" but in reality, isn't it? If you can no longer honor your marriage, end it! There are consequnces to every choice we make in this life. Steve has unfortunately learned that the hard way. I'm sure in the coming weeks details will continue to unfold as we get to the bottom of what really happened but the affair is obvious. We all make mistakes, no one is perfect and he certainly did not deserve to die because of his but it's just such a shame. I'm sure he'd much rather be alive figuring out custody and alimony then lifeless in the dirt. Ideally we want marriage to be forever, there is no reason to move forward with it if you don't feel this way but every person has a right to say "hey babe, I think I might want out". I suppose that is the mature and kind way to go about it and I just wonder why it rarely happens that way....

Besides, doesn't anybody watch 'Snapped'??? I'm sayin...... it's real in the field people.