Do Men Want To Be Monogamous?

All the talk about sex addiction, jumpoffs, rehab, cheating, sex tapes and general freakiness has some people wondering if we should re-think marriage and commitment altogether. Personally, I think people can get married and stay married if they really want to. But, hey, who am I?

Sports commentator and writer Stephen A. Smith went on The View Monday and attempted to breakdown what men really want.

Do you agree with him?

Oh, and BTW, adding fuel to the argument about re-thinking our approach to relationships was Whoopi Goldberg who admitted to cheating in her marriage.

“Hey, listen, I did it five or six times … Yes, I screwed around. Yes, while I was married. I made those mistakes too, yeah. It happens sometimes. It happens. Maybe he (Jesse James) was trying to find something different too.”

So, can anyone be faithful anymore? How do you make it work?

Would You Rock It?: Man Spanx

Hey, Brew fellas…this one’s for you!

For years, you’ve wondered how is it that you manage to go to the club week after week, pick out a cutie for the evening, game her up real good, then finally get her home… only to undress her and find out she’s got more rolls than Red Lobster. Well, now, you can create your own belly illusion. The genius behind Spanx control top undergarments and panty hose is coming out with a line just for men.

The line features cotton compression undershirts that will hold in your beer belly and love handles. The shirts run $55 for tanks and $58 for crew and V-necks. The shirts go on sale at Neiman Marcus on March 15th, or click here to pre-order your man Spanx (you know, all discreetly and whatnot). Don’t worry, we won’t tell nobody.

So, men, would you rock some man Spanx? Take our CONFIDENTIAL, TOTALLY ANONYMOUS AND UNSCIENTIFIC poll now.

Free Web poll for your Web site - freepolls.com

Would You Rock It?: Men’s Edition

Chris Brown is working on his "Big In Europe" status by making the rounds at Men's Fashion Week in Milan. I guess you could say he's leaving the skinny jeans and "pants on the ground" look in 2009 and adopting a more, uh, Euro-ish style. But, fellas, would you rock it?  Ladies, would you let your man rock these styles?  Take the poll...

Free Web poll for your Web site - freepolls.com

Images via Chris-Daily and LA Times

Men We Love: Jeff Johnson

 Photo/court. Jeffsnation.com

Jeff Johnson, shines a light on the atrocities of the world and allows us to dialogue and brain storm to become part of the solution.  At a time when our black leaders are aging and getting more and more self serving. (I'm looking at you Jesse Jackson) Jeff Johnson fills a gaping void in the black diaspora:  Grass Roots Activist with Smooth TV Ready Appeal (I'm giving you the side eye, Sharpton).

In his new book "Everything I'm not Made Me Everything I Am"  he challenges "the post–Civil Rights generation to stop making excuses, overcome personal challenges, and create lives filled with passion, meaning, and service" NOW, THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT!

I'm just glad he was able to drop that ''Cousin" bulljive from his name. Nobody is walking around calling Anderson Cooper 'Uncle Andy'!  You know how BET does us. Check out Jeff's Nation on BET and Online, and on the Tom Joyner Morning show. Oh, and buy the book.

Serena Loves To Take It Off

Fresh off the heels of her nude spread for ESPN The Magazine, Serena Williams is taking it off once again for Glamour Magazine's "Women of the Year" issue.

Glamour photo by Brigitte Lacombe

Taste The Brew for the ESPN shots.
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Brew Fashion for Men: Vegan Sneakers

A little fashion for the fellas... Supra footwear is out with their 2009 holiday Vegan collection.  That's right: vegan.  Each style features an eco-friendly canvas upper.  The shoes are selling now.

So what makes a shoe vegan?  Vegan shoes do not contain leather or any animal products.  They're 100% cruelty-free, just like the vegan diet.

Find more selections of vegan/vegetarian shoes at Mooshoes and Zappos.

Brew Fashion: Kobe Covers L’Uomo Vogue

Trying to say something nice...trying to say something nice...trying to say something...

Uh, check out Kobe on the cover of L’Uomo Vogue's October edition.

His earring looks nice? Ok, I got nothing.